The Option

"Naw... think I'll pass."

"Don't make someone a priority when they make you an option."

Heard that before?  I have... every other day on Facebook.  It's usually about women referring to men who don't call when they should!!!

I see women encouraging one another to kick that evil man to curb lest he crush your tender and valid feelings.  GET OVER YOURSELVES.  As I've said before, the first mistake I see many women making is assuming that you should be a priority in so-and-so's life.  And if he does have a life, he'll be out living it-- not worrying about checking in.

Granted, I'll agree that if a man is really into you, he'll make time to communicate-- phone call, text message, e-mail, Facebook inbox, radio dedication, flipping pigeons, etc.-- but you have to divine whether you're important enough to him for all that.  If not then move on, and don't blame the man.