|Your heart is the scene of the crime.|
Jill is in a relationship with Jack.
Jill is engaged to Jack.
Jill is single.
Jill is in a relationship with Jack and it's complicated.
But it's not complicated, is it? Jill is in a murder-suicide relationship, the kind that's headed for destruction because one person-- usually the woman-- cannot make the ultimate decision to call it a game and move on. I don't use the term "murder-suicide" lightly; in every one of these relationships something dies-- often a woman's youthful vigor.