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Friday, May 14, 2010

More Bitch Than Brains

She's got bitch-ray vision
"O.K., you're right." -- 50 Cent, from his song "O.K., You're Right"

I'll be brief with this one... (I hope)

"More bitch than " is a term I've coined just for myself to denote a woman whose primary goal in any argument, debate or discussion is simply to win.  As much as women promote communication (and healthy argument) between the sexes as the fruit of successful relationships, back-and-forths become "forths" where women do all the talking and men don't try to defend their positions-- if they know what's good for them.

I've covered this before in previous posts and on my talk show podcast.  At a certain point with most-- but not all-- women, arguing ceases to be an exercise in growth and becomes a retarded game of "I'm right, you're wrong, so deal with it!"

All attempts at being rational go right out the window, along with your stuff.

Just to be sure, arguments rarely change peoples' minds or points-of-view... but it does plant the seed of critical thought and prevent us from retreating too far into ourselves (and our egos).

Modern women have this problem bad and I think I may know one of the big reasons.  With all of the great strides made by women in just the last hundred years it's understandable that you don't want to go back.  We don't want you to go back-- well, the majority of us don't-- but busting off the shackles doesn't give you carte blanche to act like bitches (the female equivalent of assholes).

It's as if a woman feels that if she concedes one point in one argument with a man then everything that's been achieved-- the Nineteenth Amendment, the Civil Rights Act of '64 (which included women), First and Second-Wave Feminism, Title IX-- will be irrevocably lost.  With that mentality, I find that in arguments women tend to be more bitch than brains, choosing to be hard-headed and dogmatic rather than using that superior intelligence they boast about to proffer a tenable position.

I just used a bunch of big words there on purpose; it's far more effective than "You're stupid!"

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