If a man is into you-- as in he might want a relationship-- he won’t want to have sex with you. Not at first.
The man who rushes in for sex is the man who doesn’t give a damn about cultivating anything beyond the act itself. If this is okay with you then by all means oblige him, but don’t expect him to buy the cow; the milk was all he wanted.
True infatuation-- and I mean the substantial kind here-- freezes a man’s libido. Sure, he’s down to kiss and cuddle, spoon and giggle, maybe even engage in a little oral quid pro quo, but that’s as far as he wants to go for now.
His fear is that sex will corrupt the perfect little world he’s been building around the two of you in his mind, spoiling any chance at a relationship. The sexual act, made shallow by his past (forgettable) conquests, threatens him when what he seeks is a deeper connection.
Don’t let your insecurities get the better of you; his not wanting to sleep with you is personal, but in a good way. So for now just enjoy the corny miniature golf dates.
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